Update.....

Called W tonight, there was a lot of vitriol in the first hour but we spent 2 hours talking and sorted everything out. We actually reminisced and laughed about the past. It was a 'cleansing' time.

Monday will now be a LOT easier....We have agreed to be 'friendly'...I told W I would not be her friend....either husband or nothing, but that didn't mean we can't be civil.

I feel a LOT better now....Note to others....when things are easier, make that call, don't wait for them, do the right thing. It will be worth it in the long run and you will know when the time is right. smile


Me: 50
W: 45
M 24 T 26
S:23 S:21
WAW 15/8/08

Now living it large