Interesting. I think the point of no return for me is when I found out he got OW pregnant when I was giving birth to our first child. A child we had to go through infertility treatments for (both our issues). Then boom she's pregnant and he tells me "Don't you ever wonder that if we were really meant to be together, it wouldn't have been so hard for us to get pregnant?" That was it for me. The sad thing is, I don't think he thought he COULD get OW pregnant. Nobody is even sure that it is his son. But.....

WAS don't realize that sometimes...there are things you just can't take back. I think he knew I wouldn't recover from this new baby. Maybe that's when he truly gave up too. I'll never know.

Last edited by blindsided1; 06/01/09 10:10 PM.
M 5yrs
1st baby-girl born 6/18/08
Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego
H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07
D Final 07/10
OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her
Me, now - happier than I ever was with him