Treese, The next time he talks about moving on and getting a divorce, as him "what is the hold up...get moving on it". He wants you to get so fed up that you will do the work and also pay for the entire thing.
Respect? What is that to him. I agree w/VH, he's not had any respect for you for a very long time. Time to ring his chimes...do not put up w/his crap...the less you interact w/him the better. Document, document and document....you'll need all of this information later on down the road.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
