Some DB'er somewhere once wrote something to the effect that when you get a good word from WAS you shouldn't jump to Cloud Nine and when you get a sour word you shouldn't jump off a bridge.
That's called being detached.
or in the words of Schnarch "Differentiated"
- The ability to calmly hold onto yourself (your emotions, your beliefs) even when in close contact with someone who is both important to you and disagreeing with you.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.