Maybe it is becomming clearer why the DB people say that this time is where it really begins to get hard.
We think the separation is difficult, but the rebuilding is so much tougher than we can imagine.
Hang in there and try to still keep your expectations low for BF. I know that may sound weird as you are getting back into a relationship where there is a perception that there has to be expectations, but try not to have any expectations on him to the best of your ability.
