So glad to hear that you got the day job and that things with the new man are going well. Not so happy to hear about your xh jerking you around as he is. Not nice, not fair! But, I think his twin (my H) would do the exact same to me.
I'll catch up via email soon.
Take care! SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day