W then said the all too common phrase - its too little too late - she used an analogy and said its was like a wilting flower - every time the flower wilted, i gave it enough water and sun light to stand up, but now I've pushed too far, and the flower is dead, and no water or light can bring it back.
It is so tough to hear that, but we have to remember to not believe 90% of what comes out of their mouth and 50% of their actions. They are doing/saying anything to prop up their own feelings. Don't focus on that. Validate, but don't argue with it.
H35 W34 S4 | T-10 yrs M-6 yrs WAW said M over 04/09 | Living separate since 09/09 Thread #1 Thread #2 Thread #3
