OK, maybe you could have done things differently, but you didn't blow it. At least not in my opinion.
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I would never sneak my son somewhere that H asked me not to....OUT OF RESPECT....
Well...... you said the magic word there, didn't you! Treese he doesn't respect you. I have doubts about whether he ever respected you.... I think you were a trophy for him. You were his "property". You were to be seen, and not heard, there when he wanted you, but not there when he didn't. At least that's the feeing I've gotten in the past year and a half.
Next time he says you need to get the divoce moving, tell him to get going! He wants it, right? I think the less you have to do with him, the better off you are going to be.
OK, so I'm not in much of a DB mood when it comes to him......