Thanks Wifey. I try not to care what other people think. My point about that was actually it is indicative to me of what H is telling them and probably himself.

Coach asked me on another thread why I am so protective and guarded with H and I am still curious about his question (hey there, if you're reading this).

I wonder if I am really suppressing too much. There must be a way to be honest, without being judgmental or applying pressure. Not sure but it has been 5 months and I think I need to be a little less shell-shocked and communicate more authentically. I am not comfortable with "How do think?" Not for my sitch. It is just too sarcastic or snide and reminiscent of our old communication. I'm going to think about it. smile Part of my growing up it seems is to learn how to be clear and take care of myself effectively without having to make someone else wrong or less than...