Thanks wifey I will try to break it up more. She stated that she is no longer happy with the marriage as she feels that I am jealous and that I act like I am her father. I really don't beleive this to be the case as I really wasn't asking her much more than the what are you up to and just general curiosity in her life. But appaerantly that is not how she perceived it. So the LRT was to be a way of trying to show her that I am not trying to control her or am not jealous. Probably more dim than anything as we still talk and live in the same house.

I am going to be gone for a week and it will probably be more like going dark. I want her to know that I still love her and that will do anything to help her but this going dim or dark really doesn't allow for that.

"Seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well" Matthew 6:33