Well, I tried very hard to make his b-day special. I had the babysitter come in the afternoon and we went shopping. I know that is not all that exciting, but he lost a lot of weight and NEEDED new clothes (and a pair of shoes.) We found him lots of good stuff and he seemed pretty happy. We went out to dinner and a movie. I "paid" for everything, which he will still have to pay for since I have no income to speak of (stay at home mom), but he thought it was funny and we laughed about it.
When we went to bed, he asked when we could ML again. I said when HE wanted to, and he said he did. So we did. I was "nice" to him (that's what my BF and I called it when we were teenagers) so we did not actually have intercourse. But I was happy and he was very happy, we snuggled maybe three minutes and then he started talking about our son and his fever. Anything to close that sexual door ASAP! It is so weird to go from the sexy girl to mommy at the speed of light! I guess this is something I can bring up in counseling, if he will really follow thru and make the appt.
