That's so tough-when in laws say that they know but don't want to get involved. At least they will not make the OM welcome, that's extremely helpful. Family pressure does matter, imo.
Ya, when the say they don't want to pick sides but enable at the same time. That's the case for my sitch anyway. They know what she is doing is not right but yet they enable her to by watching the kids for her. I think that the women will welcome whomever she brings home but I know her uncle will not like him at his house.
