he was back, i think

[kissak]

I understand completely! I am in the same spot in a way....my thing is that how do I not talk to him? Just now this morning he has texted me twice just to say hello....Of course if I dont talk back I get fussed at. He then wants to know why Im not talking, then he will even call to see whats wrong....but if he goes all day and doesnt say anything to me...well Im just supposed to not let it bother me.

I think these men only want us as a convienence to them. We are here when they need us, but when they dont, we are forgotten. They can turn there feelings on and off so easily.

I have a feeling my H has just found a new interest right now, I think he is just spending more time talking to her now, getting to know someone new is always exciting...so then im put on the back burner. It will pass Im sure. He will be back, again. But I dont know that i will be strong enough to say no. Unless I have found someone else, but then I dont even wanna look to find someone else, just in case, you know?

Will get through this some how mdoodles....we will. I have to admitt it has gotten easier to deal with, but it still hurts just the same.