Learning to Detach

[kjensen]

Update:
H is all moved back home. Had a pretty weekend, getting stuff together for massive garage sale next weekend since we now have lots of duplicate stuffy(coffee maker, toaster..etc). H still talking a lot, still processing his breakup with OW. We had a few tense moments in conversations but managed to get through them OK. H says he is definitely more sensitive about control/power issues now and he has less self-esteem than before the A. The OW really did a number on him in the end..I think it will take time for him to get past and to process what happened.

We spent some quality time with the girls in between all of their social activities and I can tell they are enjoying their Dad being home..Things feel comfortable, but H and I both know we still have work to do on our relationship and he's "doing his best".

So far, so good..