Miss the guy that is trying to break up your family? Hey, it is time to let him go, turn your back on him and treat him just like another person that you have just met. I know that is easier said than done, but it is imperative that you detatch, it is the way to be a better you, for yourself and your two children.
I use this one a bunch, but it really does apply, have you ever chased a dog, he will run and run while being pursued, but once you turn your back and walk away, he starts to follow you.
The waste product of this little chemical reaction, many times is a spouse that comes back, the main product is a better you.
