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I may be on my way to being happy with myself, BUT my marital JOY is gone. We used to have a ton of that. That was part of "me"!


all that can come back as long as you are open to it.

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I'm glad about the cord, too. Good thing I'm a clutz!



nah..not a clutz..just "wine buzzed"

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One brother (I've heard) became a drug addict, and kind of fled from the family. The other brother did something business-wise to him, purposely... Neither would give in, so neither speak to each other. This same brother doesn't speak to another one of the brothers, either... Odd.


being a former hard-headed, stubborn azzzhole myself I can see why your husband is like this toward his brothers...I personally think that is a man thing. At some point they will work it all out..but I don't think it's your place to help him until they do...

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And, now why would you be scared of a little Red Bull? LOL


let's see..I'm in love with a lady who has 3 daughters..11,15,18..I can imagine introducing a case of RedBull into their house this month and all of them hitting their monthly cycles at different times.....i'm sure it would be quite exciting..

and i'd bust the mancave wide open smile