Mike, for the most part, I am getting "me," with a BUT attached... (literally, LOL) I may be on my way to being happy with myself, BUT my marital JOY is gone. We used to have a ton of that. That was part of "me"!

I'm glad about the cord, too. Good thing I'm a clutz!

Weight... For me, it's not that I think I look that bad, but if I don't feel comfortable in what I'm wearing, then I just don't feel right... If half of your closet doesn't fit, it kinda sucks, ya know?

I've read Mars/Venus... however, I read it during distraction... will do again.

One brother (I've heard) became a drug addict, and kind of fled from the family. The other brother did something business-wise to him, purposely... Neither would give in, so neither speak to each other. This same brother doesn't speak to another one of the brothers, either... Odd.

And, now why would you be scared of a little Red Bull? LOL (We buy it all the time... Pretty sure I didn't scare him, as he brought home a case of MONSTER, as well...)


Me-46, D-21, S15, S13

After many years w/my head in the sand...
I FILED
Divorced 6/2011

The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.