he was back, i think

[kissak]

this is incredibly hard. i dont know how to give up. i have held on for almost 3 years.

This is me. I can say that Im happy to see someone else having the same problem as me. I do wonder quite often if I am only hanging on to be the "winner". If I was someone else, I dont think I would want this man. For all the pain he has put me through...well, it sucks! My problem go alot deeper with my H than what i tell. Of course I do keep some things to myself on here....I honestly am having a hard time emotionally separating myself from my H.

He went from texting me right often everyday for no good reason to just doing occasionally over the past month. I feel as if he has left me all over again. Only just by being so withdrawn lately. His ex OW has gotten an annullment from her H of only 6 months, and things have been weird ever since. He wont open up and talk to me anymore. I saw a quote from someone else on the boards that said "let go or be dragged".....thats what i feel like now. Im being dragged through the mud by a man that wont really let go either. We have been separated clearly long enough to get a divorce, but he hasnt even mentioned it in the 8 months since i gave him back the sep papers, that he wanted back so badly.

Thanks for posting and reading my Thread Mdoodles....Its always nice to know that Im not alone.

Now, how can we help each other through this????