I think the WAS does make excuses to see us MY XH visitied 4x a week for 2 years and usually came in sat down we talked sometimes for long periods of time but they are on the fence IM not sure but I feel many of them stay on the fence a very long time, maybe the whole time whike in crises I feel MY x is still fence sitting even thru D they cant really let go yet they want the fantasy of the OP/life peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow