Overall, doing well. Socialized, worked, spent quality time with my kids and am communicating effectively...feeling pretty good.

Oh, I like this. I like this a lot.

Hey alive -- Monsoor's still in LaLa, yeah? Wondering: Is "home" far from LaLa?

If I need to let H know how horrible this has been or how hurtful to me or the kids

Serious, not-at-all-Smiley's-Person-like, question here:

What makes you think he doesn't know?