Whats going on with you then Paul? how is this injury affecting you, are you working? has it changed your life? what you do? were you an active man, and now your not? im trying to see it from her view.
you do need to begin to get strong again right now and show her your a man of worth. as painful as this is, I am suspecting wife lost respect for you - remember this: love can exist without respect but a marriage never does. has she lost respecr for you?
if so thats where you need to rebuild and do it for you, not her. I am highly suspecting this injury changed your roles.
believe me you never want a woman to feel sorry for you - no respect in that. you want her to think your A MAN. and no thats not really fair especially given you were injured; but I have a feeling on this, that something about that injury may have changed the dynamics of your marriage.
whats your feelings on it. and no do not speak to her about that. this is for this forum. you can use the knowledge to change the dynamics. but you dont let her see your weapons.
When you're down to nothing, God is up to something.
