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[pauld2100]

Wow,
Your right it is a back injury, in the upper neck and lower back it did effect our SL now that you ask she I remember her thinking it would hurt when it came to that! I told her though don't worry about that, but it did get to her. Going dark I have but about 3 weeks ago I slipped and added some pressure when SS asked me to come over again and has asked me again since, this is where it gets hard. She doesn’t care that he is trying to get me to come home! And has asked me so many times but I don't think he asked her yet only calls me.
That was when she kissed me, so I feel into the trap because the next day it was that I had kissed her and she went right back to cold you know.
So back to dark I went, so far I know she has dated at least 2 people and got physical with one. And I know she admitted to missing me but did not tell me this directly. So I can only guess that she has found a new victim but has not contacted me. And has been going out again for I don't know how many nights. I know because SS calls me when she’s gone and asks me to come by... I had to tell him I cant right now for many reasons but really need to do this, he was hurt that night on his bike and she was out late after 10:00 and he wanted me to come, this kills me!
So again I have went dark right after that day and hoped she would contact me again but she hasn’t and I know my W she wouldn’t wait long if she needed more of that attention!
I wonder how long I should stay dark, I try not to use the kids but when he calls I want to tell her why but she thinks I am using that to "move back in" this is what I am up against!
It could be a long time???
And yes I will be surprised when she calls.


Thanks for your replies!