Renee, lets just say for argument sake that he is in MLC. I have a question for you, what difference does it make? What does it change? All that I see happening is using that to make excuses and to enable his behavior. Sorry, just being blunt again! LOL Anyway, as far as "feeling remorse" trust me, these people will do every mean nasty thing that they can to you. If you get kicked out of your house or starve to death, they could care less. Its totally all about them and to Hell with everyone else.