Sun hi,not snodderly of course, but I can say in my own sitch of MLC the H claimed he wanted me to move on with my life but set things up deliberately in such a way id be so financially destitite id be too much of a burden for anyone - and I highly suspect his motives for that are to ensure I am single a LONG time. so nope, i dont think it makes them feel better I think they are SELFISH.
Snodderly (not wanting to hijack) but interested in what you said about addiction... my own h took drugs first time in MLC with OW. do you think thats a common thing...? yanno, i was more shocked re the drugs than i was her... (says a lot doesnt it...)
When you're down to nothing, God is up to something.
