Paul your sitch is unique - what kind of injury did you incur? Does this affect your life? It may have been a big shock to her??
I also think given all you have told me you need to go dark on her a bit and back off. I know how hard that advice is but I think its one that in the end may pay off for you. That doesnt mean being cold or mean or anything, be very welcoming and happy when SHE contacts YOU... if she notices this and asks why you arent contacting her be totally clean about it and say you are respecting her wishes and giving her space. BUT THATS IT. dont say more.
When you're down to nothing, God is up to something.
