Congratulations on the pregnancy. 12 weeks is a very strong milestone, as you know. I hope your wife will settle down after this. I don't know if your wife was just playing with her own emotions, or OM's emotions, or if she is in need of real psychological help. But the fact that OM says he is finished with her is good for both of you. It seems to me that your wife has a very rich fantasy life. I hope that she will invest as much time and effort in her real life, especially after the baby comes.