Oh, and I don't remember who asked, yes, my H and I reconciled. We went to Retrouvaille, had a big turnaround at the weekend, and continued to make progress throughout the Post program, and now it is 2 1/2 years later and we just got back from a family cruise. In the past 2 1/2 years I think we have only had angry words twice. Before Retrouvaille, if we spoke to each other, our words were as sharp as knives.