Thanks Kara... I too am getting effected for shorter periods of time...but the problem is, the ups and downs. As you know, it is hard to be constantly analyzing your sitch. It is exhausting. I am sure as sh$% one day that things are going well and are going to work out...then the next I am defeated and hopeless. I really am going to come up with some really good plans for the 4th, that don't include H. It is hard because I know he is planning something with our good friends, and especially if he wants the kids. Probably camping or something like that. Oh well, July 4th is a way off yet. Got bigger fish to fry till then....like finding a place to live!!!