WOW! I actually would consider you pretty lucky compared to most LBS's on this board. My x denied everything and didn't explain one damn thing. Your WAW told you exactly where she stands and what she needs.
I suggest you read up on going dark, GAL, PMA, 180s. Dont initiate any calls or txt answer any at your convienence. Take the time to work on you and your relationship with your kids. Think of it as your W taking a Sabaticle for at least a year. A lot can change on both sides over that period.
Keep on reading these boards for advice. There's a lot of good advice in confusedinpa's threads.
Good Luck. PMA
PMA,
Your mention of my wife taking a "sabbatical" has me thinking again as to just how much my past behavior/attitudes/actions are really driving our current crisis vs. my wife's involvement with the OM. According to her, if it wasn't for my pre-existing "problems"- which she didn't become fully aware of until the OM provided such a strong opposite contrast to- she would have been able to resist falling in love with the OM in the first place.
