Very, I can certianly understand your sitch! One thing you could try and keeping it simple and doing something small going to get ice cream with her and your S or something where she won't feel pressure. I did pressure and really lost far more then I gained, don't let it bother you. Try to laugh a little or bring some fun into it as crazy as that sounds it is important for you to at least do all you can to make her think you can be a happy going guy in the face of disaster! I mean you have to collect your self before you go anywhere. she may shoot you down but be prepared for it. Doing something small can lead to another if you do your best to be happy. Don't talk about your R if you can get this to happen, do your best to find something interesting to talk about. Not the norm talk about something diffrent. If she goes she will probably be cold try to ignore it she will feed on it if you ask why so don't unless she brings something up then sound sincerer about what ever it is that you have done wrong if you apologize for anything. If she dosnt bring anything up then keep it light. Validate her feelings and I can tell you first hand NO pressure at all!
Good luck
Me 40 waw 39 Never formally M Common law SD 16 SS 13 Together 9 yrs bomb 10/2/08 She started dating 11/08 Started P/A 01/09 Contiunes to call R over
