Don't leave your house. I agree, if she wants to go then that's her issue. If you want to stay where you are, then you stay. If she leaves to be with OM, then you have the place to yourself (which could be a plus, you never know) but until then stay in your house and don't sleep on the couch. I can't say much about the letter, from reading your posts, I would tend to think it might push her further away since she seems to be moving rather quickly towards D. Just keep doing your 180 and GAL and concentrate on making YOURSELF a better man-don't go to her for validation for any of the changes, just do them for yourself (if you have to keep telling yourself that until it's true, then that works too) and believe me, she notices-even when she doesn't say anything.
