Thanks so much Cautious! Today was sorta up and down-I told him I wanted a wedding ring (I haven't had one for almost 3 years) before this weekend, when my daughter graduates from high school. I just wanted a cheap fake one, mostly just to have that "married" signal again. I am trying to show him that I'm committed to the marriage-and he still wears his wedding ring. He really didn't seem like he wanted to buy me one, and when I said "did you feel weird when I asked you?" he got flustered and said "I know you want one, but you know how I feel. We'll see." Soooo, I figure that's a no. If I want a ring, I'll have to buy it (again. I bought the first one too, that he lost).
