Willowwept

[peacetoday]

W
Im Sorry for your pain..this is a good place to read and vent and realize you are not alone
we have all been thru the ride
so your H is confused right now
he loves you and OW
many of these WAS/MLcers will be pick the OW
so this is your time now to DB to the fullest
all the feelings you have now, we understand
and it will be hard for you to be supportive of your H
validate and listen to him
but if you do, and he opens up to you, you may have a better understanding of what/why is is doing this
MY XH just lied and keft it all secret, the OW ect
so maybe it is good to be in open
get a therapist for yourself
one who is pro M
this is so important to take care of your self right now
if the suicidal thoughts continue,get help
replace them with healthier thoughts
practice repkacing
You can get thru this
all of us have and yes it is devastasing
usually the LBS(us) comes out better happier stronger with streghth and a new pewrspective on life
peace