Well, went to the party and it went well. I kept my cool and didn't talk to WAW about anything other then the kids. I did however talk to her uncle who likes me and wants us to work it out. He said he knew what was going on and said the other family members knew also and didn't approve of it and want her to stop. He said that he hasn't talked to her and shes going to do what she wants so hes not going to step in her way. He made it clear that the OM will not be welcomed around his house. I think I might have screwed up though by telling him how I really feel because eventually it will get back to her.