Sandi's Place

[Amy M]

Hey there, Sandi!!! Many, many hugs to you!!! I don't come here anymore, but, I think about you daily, and you and your family continue to be in my prayers!

Things in my life are pretty good. All of our papers are with the judge. Since it's uncontested, we don't have to appear in court. So, I should be officially single sometime in June. Certainly not the path I would have chosen for my life, but, that's okay.

I'm staying busy, and having adventures! I've gotten my scuba stuff out again and committed to finishing those lessons this summer. I also may take motorcycle riding lessons after that. I've got another run scheduled in September in CA. A friend and I are planning a big vacation for my 40th b'day next year. It's all stuff I wouldn't have done if I was still married!

I've found a divorce recovery class, but, to be honest, I'm not sure I need it. The first night I left thinking that I was way better adjusted than everyone else in the room! Maybe that's the message God intended me to get from the class. I'll keep going...I'm hoping to make some new friends there.

I do still talk to a few of the folks from my DB time regularly. They help me...I hope I help them.

My stbxh is living with ow. The boys go there every other weekend. I struggle with that. He's involved my children in his affair. I'll spend the rest of my days having to teach the boys that it was wrong. I worry about how to do that without saying ugly things about them. So, for now, I don't do much about it! A friend of mine who came from a family like mine has turned out to be assured me there's time when they are older...that they'll know it was wrong without me having to do much talking. I pray that's the case!

Work is better than it was, and it's summer which in Pensacola means lots of fun to be had! The boys and I are going to really make the most of the summer!

At any rate, I'm just letting you know that I'm okay...and I appreciate all you did to help me get here...to the okay place!!

Much love to you!!!
Amy