Thanks Coach and Ready2Change for the responses!

Yes, I love my wife very much. I feel that she is very confused right now because of her poor choice to pursue an affair. It is just so hard because of what I am learning and that I don't know how to let her know. I also would love to opportunity to be more proactive and initiate some intimacy or just some conversation but I don't know how to go about it correctly and I don't want to push her away any farther. Right now, she wants nothing to do with me.

How can I show her that I love her without making her mad? How can I initiate my physical attraction for her that use to be lacking and caused some of our problems? If she is a WAW, will she respond or just get more upset?