oh honey, join the club....but do not think about suicide.

u can see my posts under infidelity.

it sucks. it does. it hurts, but u are not too late.

it is absolutely 100% normal to react the way u have.

and lets be honest, how many people can control themselves when faced with this? not me. not anyone.

and knowing her makes it worse.

my h left me for a factory worker from another country, doesnt make it better, i laugh at it actually, but atleast i dont know her.

u can pull it together, atleast in front of him.

read the posts on here, it will help.

read under infidelity, u will find some good advice.

i know about wanted to wipe out the last months, i know all about it.

i wish i could wipe out the last few years.

i wish i could offer some advice, but truthfully, nothing i tell u will take away the pain or the anger.

unfortunately, its a process that we have no choice but to go through.


me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09