you and i should talk! you can find my thread under infidelity, its called he is back, i think.
my h originally left in oct 06, similar to your time frame, he has come back and left 2 times since, most recently this week.
i havent followed your thread much, but maybe we can help eachother, it seems my h has crawled back into his hole once again with the ow and left a huge mess on my side.
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09