Oh my that really is a shame. That is one of those mistakes you just have to blow off and maybe even have a good laugh about. I would tell him that you could see why he is annoyed but tell him that you need some sort of support system in order to remain strong. I wouldn't appear too apologetic either but at least you can validate his annoyance. Try not to be too hard on yourself because your H put this stress and suffering on you and you just can't expect to do everything right under such circumstances. I think this is a chance for you to be strong. I would act like the mistake never happened.

Drew
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me-36
WAW-32
separation - 5/22/09
WAW twin sister-32 (lives with WAW)
SIL H death - 11/02/08
ILYBIANILWYAM - 5/07/09
bomb - 5/07/09