Oh my that really is a shame. That is one of those mistakes you just have to blow off and maybe even have a good laugh about. I would tell him that you could see why he is annoyed but tell him that you need some sort of support system in order to remain strong. I wouldn't appear too apologetic either but at least you can validate his annoyance. Try not to be too hard on yourself because your H put this stress and suffering on you and you just can't expect to do everything right under such circumstances. I think this is a chance for you to be strong. I would act like the mistake never happened.
Drew --- me-36 WAW-32 separation - 5/22/09 WAW twin sister-32 (lives with WAW) SIL H death - 11/02/08 ILYBIANILWYAM - 5/07/09 bomb - 5/07/09