Blue Rain, keep connected and friendly, but keep your own plans jumping forward so that he has to take action to keep up. Make him scamper to catch up with your good plans for a life with or without him. I congratulate you for doing so well and staying strong.
I hope you do rent the house out to strangers so that it does not become a campground for your wayward one. There are very satisfactory homeless shelters in Anchorage for him if he moves back with no plan. Well, they are less than satisfactory, but it is summer for a moment. Stay creative about scenarios for the fall.
I loved reading your update and always thought things could be sorted out. He is such a classic ****-up. Stay strong Purple Rain!! Oh yeah. Blue Rain!!
