Matilda, I don't know if their R is sexual or not. I don't know what my W has told him about the status of our R. He may think we're roommates, or D. He did make a reference to us being married in the past.
He asked me to join my W and he on their trip to Puerto Rico this summer. I told him that I would think about it. I would want to hear from my W that she would like me to go. I think this was his idea. When he proposed the idea to me, she didn't say a word. My initial reaction is that it probably isn't a good idea. How can you go from being roommates to travel companions?
It is tempting though, and I think his intentions are good. My guess is that he doesn't understand the nature of the problems between my W and I.
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CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
