Thanks for that, I have to admit my words are determined at times but its harder to make sure my actions follow suit, but I am trying. I agree a certain amount of time does have to pass...just wish I knew what that was!
Well the day is mostly done and so far I completed 1 of the 2 goals. By 3:30 I hadn't done either, so made myself get up and go to gym even tho it was the last thing I wanted to do. Glad I went now, I'm sure I'll sleep better tonight for it.
Still need to crack on with #2 and get some work done tonight...
I can't get the thought of wanting to confront OW from coming back into my head. I push it out, find something to do, but keep coming back to it. Especially after reading some recent post over on the infidelity/affairs forum including the subject. Has anyone done this??
Me-27 H-28 M-2.5 yrs T-8.5 yrs No kids B 1/09 S 2/09