She was a married woman who has been having serial A's. My H was just another notch on her belt. She was already dating someone else during thier A. I have a brother and several friends who live in the same town as them. He made a trip to see her (we lived in a different town in Alaska) and found her with this new man. Surprise! A married woman who is willing to have A's with M men has trouble being faithful! She is still in Ak, and he is in Va. Im still in Alaska too. I guess that it just makes sense that the A is over. Ive also talked to my MIL a few times since all this happened and she also confirmed that it is over.
He sent the original message at about 2 am Va time. The next one he sent was at about 4 pm Va time. The first one Im sure was booze fueled, but the second one Im fairly certain he was sober for. The first was friday the 29th, and the second was yesterday.
I didnt respond directly to the message, but I did tell him that Im sorry to keep him hanging, but I really want to make sure that my response is well thought out and not just a knee jerk emotional reaction.
I know at this new job he is around older men, not just the new recruits like he has been, so hopefully he is getting some more realistic advice than just what some 18 y/o bachelor thinks. When he first moved out he was living with 3 guys between the ages of 18 and 20. Hes 32. It was ridiculous trying to talk sense with him. He actaully said once that only the younger guys understood. I felt like I was married to a 15 year old boy!
Last edited by bluerain; 05/31/0906:01 PM.
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...
