Hey JoJo, here the heck you are!! It took me forever to find your thread. Thanks for coming over to my neglected thread. There has been so much going on here, too. Sorry to hear about your MIL. My FIL died three weeks after that, 0n 1-04-09. I did most of the chemo trips with him. It was really tough, so I know what that was like for you. Sounds like there is alot going on with you now. I hope you take care of yourself. Email me if you still have my email. Or I will find yours.
Yes Yoyo I am and it is got to stop. I think alot of it is what my perception is of how H should be working on the M, and how he is actually able to right now. He still is talking to OW about a mutual friend of ours that is sick and that bothers me but, i have said nothing right now as i am waiting to see if he takes it any farther than that. If he does I will talk to him about it.
I read SG's post on limbos thread and took some of her advice.
1: I need to listen more and talk less
2: Tell H what i want/need
3: Don't assume he is not working on us
I also need to work on my weight and overall positive attitude a little more I feel.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
Heh, JAK! It looks like you have some good goals above. I think having the positive attitude is so critical. I have been job hunting.....thinking a new location is what I need. D18's graduation went well and now I am more free to think of what would be best for ME! I don't think many of us put ourselves at the top of the list.....maybe that is why we are where we are today. We can change, though!!!!!
I think you are so right that we put ourselves at the bottom or near bottom and let our own selves get lost. Glad Graduation went well. Good luck on the job hunting and hopefully new location. (New start)!
I think these are good goals but still working on the total makeover and Positive attitude. JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
I know lets start all over with something / someone different" each other 