OK for men with wives having an affair, has OM...

[pauld2100]

I guess at this point I wonder if giving her an ultimatum is a good idea, or just start moving and that will certainly be a big change! she is also struggling financialy as well as me. She has like I said shown very small signs and then jumps right back to her safe zone IE not getting back together! I was thinking of just e-mailing and letting her know I will be moving? she has insisted that I shouldn't come by so I will do what she asked. and let her know I am moving on... Since our last meeting, where I did get sucked in with her out of the blue kiss! She has not contacted me for anything so I am not sure what she is up to... Could be that she has found OP?!?!? She did for a while in the beginning check up on me but this has also slowly dissipted. I have called her out a few times on things that are so obviously disrespectful and that seems to have made her rebel more. One thing she used to pride herself on is being truthful, only when she was in the right frame of mind. But at the beginning of this slpit the excuses were all really just BS even when it was clearly not true... Like she was being driven but her feelings... She had to do this in her mind.. With her friends standing by her, also telling them what ever she did about my shortcomings. I never called her on that part, IE talking about me with other people that don't even know me. and some that do. I know she feed allot of negatives about me and when she was upset about something thats all they would hear! I was very respectful to her friends and never had a cross word with any of them... As for her feinds at work I met only a few of them for a total of seconds if I added it up...

Thanks for the help!!!!

Hope to hear from you soon, I see you have allot of intersted parties... LOL
Good work flight!