Unfinished projects really drove me crazy... nag, nag, nag. Now I'm determined to finish them myself; not to send any kind of message to H but rather b/c I should have take some responsibility for the situation myself and I'll be happier when it's completed. Yeah, the chipper seemed intimidating but the rental place explained how it all worked and it was actually fun!
Had a good day yesterday... after being productive for several days, I just hung out with my friends at their place. The hubby is the one that works with H. Got more info than I wanted about H's behavior at work and the discomfort most of the guys feel being around H now. I guess H is blowing off all responsibility at work, hiding in the back or at the computer, spending money he doesn't have, and then the last-min vacation to Cali with OW. Seems to be MLC behavior but there's nothing I can do about that.
Told my friends I'm sure he'll come back around to his normal self at some point, but I am just moving ahead with my life now. Feel sad for H really... he has damaged so many R's with his choices - friends, our M, the kids...
So, enough about H. Back to me.. haha! Went to a girl's night party last night with some women from work I don't normally socialize with. This was part of my "yes, man" mentality - accept new invitations even if it's out of my comfort zone. Margaritas, mango sangria (yum!) and oodles of desserts. It was fun to just talk and laugh and I didn't get home until midnight. I'm going to church soon and then more yardwork today before heading back to work tmrw.
I hope anyone reading along has a wonderful Sunday. It's a beautiful weekend day in CO for a change and I'm going to make the most of it!
