I have always been of the "never confront the OM/OW" school, for several reasons, but your posts have made me re-think my position. I'm beginning to think that IF you think you can keep your wits about you, that there might be some value in this, especially if -- as you say -- this is someone you know.
And I must say, the "evil Puppy" side of me just LOVES this whole dynamic:
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then never relay to your spouse what went down or what was said - let OP do that, he'll change his story a million times and you going clam over it will drive her crazy. Just say "it was between him and I get the story from him". She'll go NUTS wondering what you REALLY told OP. And GRILL OP mercilessly. Let that give OP pause over just WHAT shes hiding and from WHOM. (she has lied to him, trust me on this.) Cheaters are always desperately scared of the idea of the beloved OP finding out some hard truths and then they end up with no one. (In reality, dont tell him anything at all, let her just imagine you might have.)
