Hi jr09, I can't help you with any of the legal stuff there bc I don't know about it either. But I think you did good not getting sucked into an argument, she probably did expect it and maybe was even pushing for it like you said. So good on you for not engaging and responding differently. It can be so hard to keep your cool and not get sucked in but(I have found) it will get easier the more you practice it. And good on ending the conversation first, I still find that hard to do sometimes!
Me-27 H-28 M-2.5 yrs T-8.5 yrs No kids B 1/09 S 2/09