Hi nicoles, I guess I can't tell you what the right thing to do was as I am still trying to figure it out for myself! but I think I would have responded too, to acknowledge the effort to reach out and keeping it neutral I think was good. after all (I tell myself) it is his choice to leave that led him to this path and the consequences.

I bet that really did take you by surprise too!


Me-27
H-28
M-2.5 yrs T-8.5 yrs
No kids
B 1/09
S 2/09

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