Oldtimers: IS Mlcer good parent after crises?

[peacetoday]

One thing we all have in common isoue WAS picking these pathetic partners..I dont think we hear many stories where the WAS seeks a spiritual partner and grows..usually its down the destructive path they go

MY XH ( I really do feel sorry for him, He is not a bad person and doesnt deserve what he got from this 2 yer run with 28 (26 then) year old GF
he totally lost it all--everything-- and is on presciption drugs for anxiety which I fear and hear are very addicting and difficult to get off of..

He is very angry and moody and doesnt talk for the most part now
I just let him be--its sad but only thy can decide to either get help or not and sadly very few of them do
peace